Worth Fighting For: Choosing the Right Fight
David Yarborough

 

In a world where distractions and conflicts often pull us apart, it’s crucial to refocus on what truly matters: our families, marriages, and the legacy we leave behind. This week, I found myself inspired by a sermon that called us to join a battle—not against each other, but for each other. It’s a battle worth fighting, and it’s one that requires us to shift our focus from conflict to commitment.

The Divine Design of Marriage

The sermon took us back to the very beginning, to Genesis 2, where God created the first human relationship: marriage. It’s a divine institution, the first of its kind, established before any other societal structure. Marriage is not just a social construct; it’s a sacred covenant designed by God. It’s holy ground, an invitation from God to experience a profound union.

The Power of Us

In marriage, two individuals become one. This isn’t just a poetic notion; it’s a spiritual and emotional reality. The sermon emphasized the “power of us,” where the focus shifts from “me” to “we.” This unity is not just about sharing a life but about creating a new identity together. It’s about understanding that our decisions, dreams, and futures are intertwined.

Marriage as a Covenant

Unlike a contract, which is based on mutual suspicion and legal obligations, a covenant is a sacred promise. It’s an exchange of persons, not just promises. In marriage, we give ourselves fully to our spouse, committing to love, honor, and cherish them for life. This covenant is a reflection of God’s unwavering commitment to us, His people.

A Call to Action

The sermon was a call to action for all of us, whether married, single, divorced, or widowed. It reminded us that marriage should be honored by all, as stated in Hebrews 13:4. For singles, it’s a preparation for a future commitment. For those who have experienced divorce, it’s a reminder of God’s grace and the possibility of redemption.

Conclusion: A Covenant with God

As we reflect on the sacredness of marriage, we’re also reminded of our covenant with God. Just as marriage is a commitment to another person, our relationship with God is a covenant marked by His love and sacrifice. Through Jesus, we are invited into a relationship of oneness with God, a relationship that transforms us and calls us to live in His image.

As we move forward, let’s embrace the battle for our families and marriages with renewed commitment. Let’s honor the sacred covenant of marriage and strive to become more like Jesus in all our relationships. Whether you’re married or single, remember that the ultimate goal is to know Jesus and be transformed into His likeness. Let’s fight for what truly matters, together.